#13: “Why Is Love So Hard?” A Therapist Breaks It Down
SUMMARY
In this honest and eye-opening conversation, Allison sits down with co-host Kristen, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to unpack the real reasons relationships feel so hard sometimes.
They dive deep into the common struggles couples face—like conflict, power struggles, emotional disconnection, infidelity, and the ever-elusive question of compatibility. But this isn’t your typical relationship advice.
Together, they explore how conflict can actually be a mirror, reflecting the parts of ourselves still longing for healing. Kristen shares powerful insights about the unconscious dynamics we bring into partnership, and why every person is 100% responsible for what happens in a relationship—especially when things fall apart.
Whether you're in a relationship, healing from one, or just curious about how to love better, this episode offers a compassionate (and sometimes uncomfortable) look at what it really takes to grow through love.
Resources:
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--Learn more about Imago Relationship Therapy
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