#17: Why Feeling Seen Feels Like Falling in Love — And the 5-Step Relationship Circuit for Safety and Connection

SUMMARY

What if the feeling of falling in love had less to do with the person — and everything to do with how deeply seen you feel?

In this episode, we explore the power of energetic presence, emotional safety, and the deep human longing to be seen, valued, and known.

You’ll learn:

·       Why we can feel euphoric (or even in love) with someone we’ve just met

·       How your energy, curiosity, and eye contact can create intimacy and connection — even in seconds

·       What creates safety in relationships — and what happens when it’s missing

·       How to to reignite aliveness and emotional intimacy in long-term partnership

·       How unmet childhood needs influence who you’re drawn to (and how to shift out of old patterns)

·       How to avoid the trap of falling for someone who makes you feel amazing — but isn’t truly aligned with the kind of partnership you want

Plus: I’ll share my top 5 ultimate strategies for creating emotional safety and connection in any relationship. These are the same tools I come back to again and again — with clients, partners, and even myself — to move from disconnection and conflict into trust, openness, and intimacy.

Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or navigating a season of disconnection, this episode is a grounding reminder that you have the power to shape the energy between you and another — and create love that feels safe, nourishing, and deeply alive.

Resources:

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Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician, therapist, or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or mental health concern. Never disregard professional advice or delay seeking it because of something you heard on this podcast.

Kristen Stuhlmueller

Kristen is a Marriage and Family Therapist and the Founder of Interconnected Love.

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